Ultimately, men respect strength not weakness. Self confidence is associated with those who have strong boundaries and from a Darwinian standpoint, men want women who can survive, thrive, and pass on their genes. Learning to bring the gavel down when you have to is mission critical for healthy relationships. Fortunately for you, being a bitch is very easy to do, and will save you lots of trouble in the long run. Simply adhere to the following rules to make your bitchiness complete:
1) If you aren't attracted, don't be his friend. Don't talk to him, don't answer his texts. Just don't. Be a bitch now, or be prepared to suffer the consequences.
2) If he doesn't pay for dinner, it's not a date. Yawn, zone out, then leave. Boredom is the greatest revenge since every man wants to feel like the center of attention.
3) Assess whether a man wants to be with you or be with you for the moment. Some obvious red flags: "You're fun!" "Why don't you meet me up here?" and um... "I don't love you." If you have to drive two hours to see him, he doesn't bother to take you out, or you spend most of your time together in his room, it's time to be a bitch. Mutual using does not set you up for success. Use him instead by having him fix your electronics until he expects the transition. Then jet. If a man treats you like a piece of ass, then treat him like an ass.
4) When a man doesn't treat you with respect, it is obvious in the way he talks to you. Condescending jabs should be met with a response commensurate to the amount of douchebaggery injected into his comments. Sometimes the best response is the ditzy mind-fuck. Mess with him a little with an ostensibly harmless serving of agreeable ditziness, followed by a jab of sarcastic awesomeness. He will subconsciously feel the sting but won't be able to articulate why.
Nice gets you nowhere with men and relationships. At times, it is necessary to be a bitch and kick 'em to the curb with blatant displays of your true awesomeness.
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